Author: benbam

I do not know how many are with me especially I came from a highly competitive society. how many really understand the spirit of sportsmanship? can you all still stay as good as before if either one loses? also importantly, if you need to fight envy, fight it with kindness! remember less competition also mean less stress and better for your well being. My above […]

I am not encouraging you to go start pick up the extremely harmful deadly fatal habit. I am just sharing my past observation and these young smokers will bear the brunt when they catch up on their age. see me in action, I was also once a smoker and not as fast as before cos’ of my age and kilogrammes…

something I learnt thru experience and this wisdom was further shared by a good local – that’s to challenge your thoughts. being a rather analytical person not for the small things btw. sometimes, things that you hear and see may be misleading! oki, haha no bias rather I meant news from the internet, mainstream or even small talk within your circle. see the good lady […]

As of current, I have decided to move on cos’ holding things that can take a toll on your outlook in life is meaningless. Of course, I have met good people too. I will leave it to you to think if what I said is true or some imaginary tale. Have a great year ahead! This photo was taken about 28 years ago.👇

the decent thing to do is not make him lose his job and sit at home as he got bills to pay too just like you and me. where i experienced in the past has no decency to speak of! so imagine that you and others loathe this colleague and the more you guys should send his CV to headhunters and put in strong good […]

maybe, i feel the need to explain my stance. i do not harbour any political ambition and even i can, i wouldn’t be bothered with taking PR photos and too much clapping in the background can harm you and your country. i am ordinary man on the street who spent 5 bucks on lottery per week and i am happy with that. when i was […]

This happened early this year, I was bringing a young Muslim chap for community access. “Asalam🙏” When I was driving, I always noticed that he stayed glued to his smartphone watching influencers talk on youtube. Initially, there was nothing wrong but later, I realised how he started to become suspicious of me cos’ I am a Cina person. he began asking about the Australian election […]